Insight and Inspiration for Living Your Legacy
Sometimes I act like an *ss. I bet you do too.
Why is that?
Human beings crave certainty.
The problem is that almost everything is uncertain.
Human beings are also storytelling creatures.
We make sense of ourselves, our situations, and each other through narrative.
Our love of certainty and...
What are you grateful for?
Psychology and neuroscience confirm that gratitude is one of the simplest and easiest ways to boost your own (and others) mood.
When we are grateful, we practice love and empathy from the inside out, cultivating joy and equanimity.
What do you want to get better at? Where in your life would you like to be better?
It helps to begin with why you want to get better and where you want to improve.
Thriving and prosperous difference-makers know that intention and integrity matter.
Getting better at something that...
Making progress in your pursuit of making a better living while you make a bigger difference requires making decisions and taking action.
Of course, it helps to make deliberate decisions (ones that are weighed and considered) and to take action with intention and integrity.
It also helps if you...
Human beings are meaning-making machines.
We are uncomfortable with uncertainty and randomness.
We try to make sense of what we don't understand and impose order on chaos.
But here's the thing, in our desire to make sense of ourselves, our situation, and each other, we put another natural human...
Aspiring and advancing difference-makers set goals and develop strategies for making an impact (and a living).
Many well-meaning change agents often think about what else they can do to amplify the reach and impact of the difference only we can make.
After all, human beings are...
Be selfishly selfless.
For most of us, this is a counterintuitive, even repugnant idea.
Only a narcissist would place himself in the #1 position in his life.
I don't think so.
Sure, a narcissist places his needs, wants, dreams, and desires ahead of everyone else's.
But only a narcissist...
Why does the pursuit of happiness create so much misery?
Because happiness isn't a place. It can't be pursued.
The pursuit of happiness is a fruitless endeavor that can only result in frustration and emptiness.
So, does happiness matter?
Of course, we just need to understand what it is (and what...
If you're a difference-maker (and if you're reading this, you probably are or aspire to be), you're a risk-taker.
Difference-makers seek to make things better, and making things better requires coming up with creative, new solutions to persistent old problems.
For the difference-maker, navigating...
I've said it many times, human beings make sense of themselves, their circumstances, and each other through narrative.
Put another way, choose your story, choose your future.
And nothing makes a story more engaging than an open loop.
What's an open loop?
In storytelling, an open...
You've got to change to change.
But change works in at least two directions—change for the better or, the worse.
Which direction are you going?
If you don't pay attention, you'll likely fall into the path of least resistance.
And that path leads somewhere worse, more often than not.
How would you answer the question, "What do you want?"
The most common answers I hear are attached to "more."
More money. More status. More stuff.
But here's the thing, "more" rarely gets us closer to what we really want.
Through conversations with clients in midlife, I find...